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July 29, 2011

Subject: How You Know He's Your Soul Mate--

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Although love life connections seldom offer pure
romantic fantasy, they do offer fantastic
opportunities for emotional and spiritual growth,
inevitably drawing to the surface anything but bliss
and your romantic expectations.

Almost everyone wants to be in love and be loved,

but unfortunately, the soul mate concept is greatly
misunderstood.

In the early stages of a relationship, you may find

yourself wondering if you have finally found that

cherished connection, your soul mate. Later, if things
don't go as planned, you may say, "What was I
thinking?" Regrettably, this seems to happen to
everyone, even repeatedly for many people, chiefly
due to myths about soul mates and the illusions of
love ingrained in the mind from early on.

Our findings show that you have many different kinds
of soul mates; some are for more practical purposes,
some are very challenging to help accelerate your
spiritual growth, and fewer are mainly related to
romantic reward.

Here's how to know if you've met one of your more
agreeable ones, or even the most rewarding of your
life (one of the more pleasing qualities of the concept
of fate), and if you're ready for this type of relationship:

1. You've both sincerely sought self-understanding and
to make the most of your life. You understand that the
less you know yourself, the more you see the world as
you are instead of how it really is. You take

responsibility for your life and everything in it, and
avoid blame and victim consciousness. You know that
expecting someone to be your everything is unfair and
immature, thus you truly respect your partner for who
they are and avoid trying to change them.

2. You're both at a place in your life where you're
comfortable with your time alone, not desperate to find
a partner. You realize that nobody is going to save you
but yourself, and you refuse to put that kind of pressure
on anyone. Along with knowing the qualities you require
your partner to possess, you are perfectly clear about
what you are offering as well, and in relation to what
you expect of your significant other, it's fair.

3. Thankfully, your timing is right; both of you accept
that there are times in life for everything, as symbolized
through comprehensive astrology and numerology, and
some phases are just not conducive to romantic
relationships.

4. Compatibility is great between you. You recognize
that the harder you have to work to make a relationship
pleasant, the worse the overall compatibility. While you
acknowledge that compatibility is somewhat based on
what you make of it, after years of dating experience,
you recognize that compatibility is much more something
two people naturally have between themselves. It can't
be manipulated, it just is. Please see more information
about this phenomenon here: http://tinyurl.com/6hcqcto

5. You both accept that true love is unconditional love.
You both strive to limit conditional love demands, such
as "I certainly hope she does this, because if she loved
me she would..." A good measure of how much your
relationship is based on unconditional love is if you
forget about Valentine's Day (or better yet, boycott it),
for example, and your partner thinks nothing of it

because he or she knows that your love is much deeper
and much more unconditional than a commercial,
contrived romantic holiday. The more you get caught
up in romantic expectations, the more likely you are
going to misunderstand the true essence of a romantic

soul mate connection: love without attachments and

demands.

A rewarding love relationship may be elusive to many,
but once you find one of your superior soul mate
connections, you probably won't be fraught with
indecision whether or not he or she is right for you.

Still looking for a solid soul mate? Check out the 77
Biggest On-line Dating Mistakes to save time and
avoid hassles:http://moregooddates.com/