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The Mystic Twins
Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo   

January 15, 2010

Subject: Cheating and 10 Types of Married
People

A happy, monogamous, life-long, traditional
marriage is almost universally desired, yet has
been proven time and time again through high
divorce and infidelity rates and legions of
unhappy couples to be, in most cases, an
idealistic, unrealistic notion trumped by the
reality of human nature.

Married and happy? Consider yourself fortunate.
Married and unhappy? We have compassion for
you. Married and cheating? It's your life and we
won't judge, but you may want to consider the
karmic consequences (even if you don't get
caught).

Through work involving personality and cyclical
timing assessment, intuitive consulting, and
matchmaking, we've become familiar with 10
main groups of married people:

1. Those who have never strayed and are
faithfully devoted to their long-term marriage
partner. Typically, this group consists of 3
separate categories:

a. Together, they are part of a set that makes
up roughly 5% of the married population-both
partners in this bond enjoy that rare, life-long,
mutually satisfying monogamous connection.
Even more rare is the male who has no desire
to be with anyone else--for his entire life.

b. This next couple isn't s'exually active any
longer and may have developed a knack for
denying their s'exual urges, lost interest in s'ex
altogether (which is atypical, and could be a
health problem or another unresolved issue), or
replaced their s'ex drive with one or more
compulsions involving food, shopping, gambling,
or medication.

c. In their insistence on striving to live the
fantasy of a picture perfect, traditional marriage,
one spouse completely overlooks the fact that
their partner is having wild s'ex with neighbors
and coworkers.

2. Those who are terrified of losing their spouse
(and, or children and, or half of their assets) and
having to endure a "failed marriage," yet can't
shake the powerful, persistent urge (which is
natural) to get involved with someone other than
their spouse. They haven't physically cheated, but
are consumed with regular fantasies of doing so.
They may (e.g., their partner refuses to have s'ex)
or may not have valid reasons to seek love or
lust outside of their marriage.

3. Those who avoid s'exual affairs, but carry on
emotionally intimate relationships with people
other than their spouse.

4. Those who cheated once, admitted it to their
spouse, and never did it again, thus far.

5. Those who say they would never cheat,
condemn those who do, yet after a few drinks
on a girls' or boys' night out for example, end up
having a one night stand, then deny it happened,
even to themselves.

6. Those who have a steady, secret lover on the
side.

7. Those who have had a few affairs and manage
to keep it quiet.

8. Those who believe their romantic cup
overfloweth and greet each day with the spirit
of a young sailor on shore leave who has been
at sea for months. They are skilled at maintaining
the outward appearance of a sound marriage,
and secretly rooting out new lovers anywhere
they go.

9. The happily married couple who has an
unspoken agreement to allow each other
"breathing room." But things get complicated
when one is blatantly caught in the act of
infidelity since both are more comfortable
pretending they are exclusively monogamous.

10. The couple who has agreed upon a non-
monogamous relationship. They acknowledge
their natural desires, thumb their nose at
society's expectations, and encourage each
other to explore other love and, or purely physical
relationships (safely and responsibly, of course),
while creating a surprisingly strong bond due to
their honesty and openness.

This type of relationship is gaining in popularity
and tends to work best with two people who
are secure with themselves, emotionally mature,
and value their distinctive connection. They
understand that each connection is different and
offers unique, valuable lessons and rewards, and
they are more aware of the spiritual reasons for
their relationship instead of being fixated on the
mythical, matrimonial fairytale archetype.

This couple is not "cheating" because they have
agreed upon an honest and flexible arrangement.
Remember, it's mainly the dishonesty that breaks
up a couple when one has strayed from their
strictly monogamous relationship.  
It's important to note that affairs happen whether
or not a couple is happily married, and you can
fall in love with someone without sleeping with
them. Our empirical research shows us that
everyone has many soul mates, thus it's natural
to have romantic attraction to multiple people
throughout your life, and it's unreasonable to
expect that one person meet all your emotional,
physical, and romantic needs.  
We've also found that you will meet who you're
meant to meet, when you're meant to meet them,
and it will last for as long as it's meant to last. The
rigid rules of marriage fail to lock in happiness
forever because they are trumped by the veracity
of life

So how do you avoid these problems? By being
brutally honest and realistic with yourself and a
partner, before and during a commitment.

Married or not, human nature is what it is. Could
it be that someday the institution of marriage, as
it is defined today, will be an ancient relic, one
that is as shunned as being single is today?
Maybe not in the near future, but we do believe
later generations will do so and thus enjoy
happier love lives.
 
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