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February 25, 2011

Subject: 6 Tips for Couples to Avoid

Getting Swept Away by Romantic Illusion

Most people strive to be part of a happy
couple. Unfortunately, the result is often
the opposite. Humans learn great lessons,
often through difficult times, from love
relationships. But if you take a spiritual
approach and remember the following tips,
you'll be able to create more happiness
and be better equipped to handle rough
seas.

When you're involved with someone,
periodically take inventory of your
relationship by asking yourself the

following questions:

1) Are you allowing this person to be who
they are instead of expecting them to be
who you want? Do you have many rules

for them? Step back and consider which

of your expectations are realistic, and

which are motivated by a need to control.

For example, requiring them to pick up

after themselves or be on time is fair. Not

allowing them to hang out with whom they

want is not. You're their partner, not their

mother or father, and you should want for

them what makes them happy (within

reason), even if it doesn't always please

you.

2) When was the last time you appreciated
this person and felt gratitude for them

being in your life? If it's been awhile,

meditate on all the reasons you found this

person special in the first place. This can

be an exercise of renewal, or of realizing

that the bond may have been built on

illusion. If the latter, don't feel bad as it's

very common due to how our society

approaches love and relationships. Now

you know better.

3) Now may be a good time to reassess

your connection and if necessary, take

your relationship in a new direction. This is

especially true if you and your partner

became involved at a young age or have

been together for more than a few years.

While only the traditional relationship

model gains our society's stamp of

approval there are many other forms that

may work better for you, your partner,

where you both are in life, and where you

want to go.

As extreme as it may sound, some people,
who already have a solid bond, find that
an open relationship can actually improve
and enhance their connection. Of course,
responsible (safe-sex and honest) non-
monogamy, as an alternative to the wildly
popular lying, cheating, and unsafe sex
approach, is only for those who are mature
enough and have moved beyond the old
fashioned partnership "ownership" mindset.

It's important to note that you must both

agree upon and want such an arrangement

for it to be successful.

4) Have you let yourself go? If so, it's time

to change your diet, exercise regularly, and

make the most of your appearance, no

matter what your age. If you don't, is it

realistic and fair to expect them to remain

physically attracted to only you? Use our

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Yes, you can still be sexy with the excess

weight, but it's bad for your health.

5) How is the energy connection between

you two? Has it changed over time? Guilt,

resentment, and other fears can dramatically

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6) Has the passion between you two

become a bit tepid? Good sex is one of the

most important parts of a healthy relationship.

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Let's face it. Usually, when it's over, it's over.
But if your relationship still has life in it, and

you both have the desire, you may be

surprised how a (seemingly) radical

approach can revive and energize your

connection.

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