Aug26th2011_Destiny_Free_Will

Destiny and Free Will Column

The Mystic Twins

Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo

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Aug 26, 2011

Subject: Worried She Will Miss Her Destiny

We received the following question recently:

"What happens if you don't take action at the right
time to manifest your destiny? Does this mean you
will miss it? Or miss important events in your life?

Will the opportunity present itself again at a later
time?"

Based on our empirical research, we believe that at
least 75% of the core events, circumstances, and
conditions (rewarding and challenging) in your life
are predestined. That means those things will
transpire no matter what.

To make an analogy, if you miss an exit ramp and
that opportunity is passed up, that exit was only part
of the 25% that really wasn't part of your core
predetermination. If it, or rather the lessons related
to it, were part of your path, something similar will
present itself, in time.

Children and Fate

If you are meant to be a parent or mentor for a
particular soul, it will happen even if you are unable
or choose not to have your own children. The soul
will find you through adoption, as a niece or nephew,
or perhaps as a neighbor. The bond will usually be
special from the beginning, and you'll both likely
recognize the significance.

Career and Fate

If you are meant to influence people through a

certain type of work, it will happen even if you don't
consciously plan it. It's likely you will feel passionate
about the work, and sharing it with others will give
you pleasure and be something that you just feel
compelled to do. The specific form of the work may
not be destined, but if it's meant to be, you'll
somehow get the message, technique, or lesson
out to the public.

Love Relationships and Fate

If you are meant to enter a serious relationship
during a predestined window of time, you will. That
is not to say the relationship is guaranteed to be all
that you expect and desire it to be.

If you're already involved, yet are meant to meet
another soul mate, perhaps because your current
relationship has expired even though you're still

going through the motions, a marriage certificate or
commitment will not prevent destiny. You have free
will to act responsibly and honestly, although we've
witnessed time and time again the swift current of
predetermination making a mockery of marriage
vows.

If a person has very challenging love life karma, it
could very well be their fate to endure excessive
anxiety about it. Regrettably, those with challenging
love life karma may strong-arm a partner into a
"permanent" relationship, then when it falls apart,
blame their partner. Enduring romantic satisfaction
just isn't part of their personal fate. However,

generating gratitude and acceptance of what they

can't change (which tends to foster happiness) is

always an option.

How You Know Which Path to Take

Whichever action feels most right, that you naturally
take, especially that which you all but can't help but
take, is part of your fate. Even the apparent mistakes,
especially those from which you learn the most, are
destined.

The best approach is to let go (daily meditation helps
a lot), follow your heart, and avoid fear-based decision
-making.

As we mentioned, if you don't take action at a point in
your life to attempt to seize on an evident opportunity,
and you likely will if it's meant to be, fate will find you
regardless, within the bounds of your unique personal
destiny. By the way, contrary to popular New Age
thought, these words all have the same meaning: fate,
destiny, predestination, and predetermination.

Life is only meant to be fair related to the degree your
karma is rewarding.

Also understand that you aren't being punished if you
have tough karma. Your soul (not your personality)
has chosen it in this lifetime for whatever reason, which
can be discovered, in part, through past life regression.
Realizing the root reasons why often makes it easier to
tolerate.

Even those important decisions that you make are
predetermined, in our view. Please see this article for